Friday, January 9, 2009
frm some1...
"Suddenly I just feel very inadequate. I'm just working hard, trying to hit my quotas, 一直在拼... but then... so what? Sure, I enjoy what I'm doing. But at the end of the day, all I have is work. I have accomplished nothing. Take it away and what do I have?
The older I get, the more I've realised that it is very, very hard for a relationship to work. Sometimes, you like the other, but the feeling is not reciprocal. Other times, it's the other way around. Sometimes, you meet the right person, but it's the wrong timing. And this is all even before you get together.
After that, there's a whole different set of issues to deal with. Staying together. Trust. Commitment. Communication.
There's just so many factors that need to be just right for a relationship to work out.
Truly, those of you who are in relationships, treasure them. Because when you get older, they are harder and harder to come by.
And then all you'll have left is work, bills to pay, and perhaps a bitter dose of Life. Everything material becomes empty.
As I get older, the answer gets clearer and clearer. The meaning of Life can be summed up in one word: Relationships.
Relationships. Be it with Family, Friends or your Significant Other. Keep the ones that matter, and trash the rest that don't. There really isn't enough time to spend with the people who should and do matter. "
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